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ALERTA DE SEGURIDAD: El uso de una computadora puede ser identificado y actividades en la internet nunca pueden ser totalmente eliminadas del disco duro. Si piensas que tu uso de computadora posiblemente esta siendo monitoriado favor de encontrar un  lugar seguro donde puedas navegar la red social, por ejemplo la casa de una amistad confiable o la biblioteca publica. O llama a nuestra  linea de Violencia Domestica disponible las 24 horas al 707-255-NEWS (6397) si te encuentras en el Valle de Napa, o a este (800) 799-7233 si te encuentras fuera del Condado de Napa. Si estas visitando nuestra pagina y necesitas salirte rapidamente a una pagina no relacionada, oprime el boton rojo de ESCAPE arriba en la esquina de la mano derecha y seras desviado/a. Favor de probar este función en su computadara AHORA MISMO para asegurarse que se sienta comodo/a usando esta función.

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707-255-NEWS (6397)

24 HOUR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND SEXUAL ABUSE HELP LINE
LINEA DE AYUDA LAS 24 HORAS PARA VIOLENCIA DOMESTICA Y ABUSO SEXUAL

1-800-799-7233

OUTSIDE OF NAPA COUNTY
FUERA DEL CONDADO DE NAPA

Help an Abuser

One of the difficult things about helping an abuser is that as much as we want them to change, we don’t have the power to make them change.  Only they have the power to change their abusive behaviors.  Most therapists will recommend that both partners in an abusive relationship seek counseling, but it is often unsafe and unhelpful to go together.  The issues each faces are different, and sometimes the patterns have been repeated so many times that it takes breaking away from each other to learn new healthy behaviors.  There are support groups available for both abusers and survivors of domestic violence.  NEWS can give you information about where to find help.

 

 

  

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when. You can only decide how you're going to live. -- Joan Baez