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I’ll never forget the “ah ha” moment I had when I first learned about victim blaming. It was during an Introduction to Feminism class led by Bettina Aptheker at UCSC in the fall of 2002. The lecture was Sexual Harassment: Race, Class and Sex, and when she unpacked one of the most common victim-blaming questions survivors endure - “What were you wearing?” – my mind was blown.

Until that lecture, I had never thought about the implications of what that question meant, the harm it caused and the way it perpetuated myths about violence against women. As Professor Aptheker explained, “it is not about what you are wearing, that is not the question we should be asking. It is about the motive of the other person and why they are assaulting you. Clothing does not cause rape. Rapists do!” I never fully understood how victim blaming and rape myths operated until that moment.

The work of sexual violence prevention educators is so important because it challenges pervasive myths and educates people about the root causes of sexual violence in order to promote culture change. They also help create environments where victims feel comfortable accessing resources and help without judgement and blame.

Coach Bailie, SAVS Program Manager since 2018

For more of Bailie's story and the What Were You Wearing project, click HERE.


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Sandy Re Sims, 2021 NEWS Board President, reflecting on the vote to merge Sexual Assault Victim Services (SAVS) with NEWS in 2010


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